Singles Events & Socials in NYC
Relaxed, themed nights for meeting new people, whether you're after romance, a new friend or a brunch buddy. Rooftops, speakeasies and lounges across the city, with a host to break the ice.
- Rooftops & speakeasies
- Themed icebreakers
- 40s & over nights
Upcoming Singles Events & Parties
New themes every month. Early bird tickets are limited, so book ahead.
Meeting People, Made Easy
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Pick a theme
Rooftop connects, speakeasy socials, glow parties or 40s & over nights. Each listing shows the venue, the vibe and the age range if there is one.
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Break the ice
Our hosts and themed icebreakers do the heavy lifting, so you can walk in solo and still feel part of the room within minutes.
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Make your move
At our "Be My…" socials you pick connection bookmarks and hand your details to the people you'd like to see again.
Singles Events With a Point of View
It's great to meet new people, but you don't always know where they'll fit in your life. Our singles socials are built around that idea. They're less structured than speed dating and more intentional than a regular bar night.
The "Be My…" bookmark social
At our signature "Be My…" socials you get unlimited bookmarks in ten categories: friend, wing woman, wing man, brunch or dinner partner, workout partner, romantic interest, "discover NYC together" and more. Write your contact details on the back and hand one to the person you clicked with, or leave it with the host to pass along.
Rooftops, speakeasies and parties
The calendar also includes rooftop connects with skyline views, secret speakeasy socials at places like The Blind Barber, glow parties, seasonal Halloween bashes, and dedicated 40s & over "Prime Time" and "Like Minded" connection mixes.
How is a singles social different from speed dating?
Speed dating is a structured series of short one-on-one dates. Singles socials are relaxed mixers with themed icebreakers, so you can mingle at your own pace and meet people for friendship as well as romance.
Can I come on my own?
Yes. The events are designed for meeting new people, and our hosts and icebreakers make it easy to join conversations.
Are there singles events for people over 40?
Yes. We regularly host 40s & over connection mixes, and many events list an age range in the title.
What's included in the ticket?
It varies by event. Many include a complimentary drink or other perks, and some venues have a small minimum bar purchase. Everything is listed on the event page.
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